You’ve probably heard the saying “crazy chicks are amazing in bed.” Indeed, crazy women tend to be intense, uninhibited and pleasure-seeking, which usually makes for fireworks in the bedroom. But, when it comes to a relationship, sex is only one component. If you’re in this type of situation, here are some tips on having your cake and eating it too.
Stick to the Bedroom
For that crazy chick in your life that you can’t get enough of in the bedroom, but can’t deal with outside of it, the key is to keep it in the sheets. You know, keep her as a ‘booty call’ who you hit up when you’re feeling ‘randy’. Don’t go the relationship route and definitely don’t lead her on to thinking that you’re interested in a relationship. Maintain a “no strings attached”, casual situation that you can keep lighthearted and fun. That way you get to enjoy great sex without having to deal with the crazy outside of the bedroom.
Limit the Rotation
If you’re seeing a crazy chick, make her part of a rotation instead of seeing her solely. This way you’re spending time with non-crazy chicks to keep a balance. Where she falls in your rotation will depend on how much of her bat-shit-crazy drama you can deal with. If she’s particularly crazy, limit the rotation so that you’re seeing not-so-crazy chicks more often than you’re seeing her. Otherwise, if you see her too often, you may begin to question your own sanity.
Hang Out in a Group
When you’re not having an amazing romp with your chick in the sack, hang out with her in a group instead of one-on-one. Crazy chicks tend to keep the crazy in check in when around mutual friends, in an attempt to maintain a good image. Use this to your advantage by making everything a group outing – whether it be to the theater, to see a new play, or your favorite dive bar. Invite friends along so that you don’t end up hanging out with the crazy chick one-on-one. She’ll keep the crazy in check and you might still get to enjoy the great sex after everyone goes home.
If you find yourself dating a crazy chick, then it’s too late to keep things casual. In that case it’s crucial to set boundaries. Crazy chicks can literally drive you insane with their intense emotions, self-induced crises and penchant for drama. If you don’t set firm boundaries, your crazy chick will chew you up and spit you out. This means clearly defining what you will and won’t tolerate and what the consequences will be (i.e. ending the relationship). Boundaries help keep crazy chicks in line and if she repeatedly crosses your boundaries then it’s best to end it regardless of how good the sex is.
Have you had any positive crazy-chick experiences? Let me know!