Julia Ann Learns How to Make a Brazzers Porn for Moms

This is what happened when Brazzers asked real moms to inspire a porno.

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Julia Ann is an adult film icon, winning AVN awards for Best Actress, MILF/Cougar Performer of the Year and even Best Makeup. MILF performing veteran though she may be, Julia Ann had a lot to learn about what real moms want to see in their porn. This is what Julia Ann learned from spending an afternoon with a group of real moms talking about porn.

I’ve starred in adult films since my early 20s. I’m very proud of what I’ve been able to accomplish over my 25+ year career, but the MILF stage of my career has been both adventurous and a huge success — it’s quickly becoming a personal favorite. I’ve never felt sexier than how I feel now as the “experienced woman.” And I’m not even close to reaching my peak.

Unfortunately, I know plenty of women my age who are in the complete opposite position. As time goes on, they feel like they have fewer and fewer avenues to explore their sexuality and, worse, they don’t feel sexy.

Thank goodness Brazzers called me.

The Discussion

Brazzers approached me a few months ago about leading a discussion on how real moms feel about porn and sex. A few weeks later, I was in a room with a whiteboard, having tea and cake with six real moms as we talked about sex and porn so Brazzers could make a scene specifically for moms on Mother’s Day.

Not everything we learned about the moms’ feelings towards sex and porn could make it into the scene, which is why I wanted to share my experience with you below.

What do moms look for in a sexual partner?

Without a doubt, figuring out what the moms look for in a sexual partner was the hardest part of this entire exercise. When one mom said she liked rugged facial hair, another chimed in to say she liked a nicely groomed goatee. What can I say? We all have our different boxes to tick off when it comes to a sexual partner.

Even though there were a lot of differences in opinion, the one thing we kept coming back to was confidence. No matter what word you want to use—swagger, charisma, charm—there is something undeniably sexy about a man that believes in himself.  

What gets moms off?

Attentiveness

If you think foreplay is only kissing, touching, caressing, licking, spanking, rubbing, etc. then you are in for a surprise. According to the moms we met with, one of the sexiest things a man can do is be attentive. Listen, remember, be interested and, if you can, anticipate her needs and the hot MILF in your life will be totally turned on.

Eye Contact

This should be a no-brainer by now! I feel like eye contact has been in every sex and dating tip I’ve ever read, but let’s go over it again for the sake of the moms. A man who avoids eye contact seems unsure of himself or maybe he has something to hide. Neither option is particularly attractive to an experienced woman who doesn’t have time for secrets or games! A man who is comfortable making and maintaining eye contact screams trustworthy, self-assured and confident. Now that’s hot.

Dirty Talk

Everyone has their own approach to dirty talk. I know my strategy is to describe what’s happening in the moment with a moan. The moms were into dirty talk, which is a good thing if you’re a talker, but they had an interesting note for all of you who are vocal in the bedroom. You can’t just call them “sl*ts” over and over again. When you talk dirty to your partner, the moms recommend that you mix in some flattery.

Things moms don’t like in porn

Infidelity

As far as porn scenarios go, the real moms I spoke to were game for just about anything except for cheating. While I’m ok with acting out an infidelity fantasy, I definitely see why these moms would draw the line at cheating. Imagine trying to get off to a video where a husband f*cks his secretary after he tells his wife he needs to work late. Sounds hot, right? Well, it loses some of its appeal if the reason you’re watching the video in the first place is because your husband is spending another late night at his office. Feeling insecure is not sexy.

Facials

You must have known facials would be on the list! From what I could tell from talking to these women, they weren’t morally opposed to facials, they were bored of them! They know men want to cum in their faces, but they are so over it. C*m on their asses, the small of their backs or inside them since creampies don’t have the same consequences when you get to be my age, but not the face. It’s played out.

Things moms want to see in porn

Chemistry

Like pretty much everyone who watches porn, the moms I met with want to see performers enjoying themselves. They want passionate, leg-quivering and lip-curling orgasms. You can call it chemistry, but I know from experience that you can’t always count on good chemistry, and that’s why we call ourselves actors. May that serve as a reminder that a little acting can go a long way…

Build-Up

Now, I’m not a doctor, but I am woman of experience. And based on my experience, stimulating the brain is just as important as giving the clit the attention it needs. A little bit of witty banter and some flirtatious teasing to kick off the scene is a guaranteed way to pique an older woman’s interest in porn.

Men Begging for Sex

One of the moms brought up men begging for sex towards the end of our session and it got a huge rise out of the room. It wasn’t unanimous since some of the mothers like to see a man take charge, but I think the moms got excited by the idea of a man begging for sex because it makes them feel desirable. When you see someone get on their hands and knees for you when you’re the dominant one, there’s a sense of sexual empowerment there. How could you not feel like a sex goddess?

Powerful Women

When we were trying to figure out what characters we wanted to feature in Brazzers’ special Mother’s Day scene, my first suggestion was that they be housewives. The moms quickly shot down the idea and pushed for the main characters to be working women. But they didn’t want the women to have just any job, they wanted them to be in positions of power, which is why the scene features a female attorney and a female judge. They want to see smart, hard working, determined women getting off as a reward for climbing the ladder.

Rough Sex

Rough sex is hot. It’s as simple as that. Well, not exactly. They like watching rough sex because the alternative is a bore. There’s nothing wrong with soft, sensual sex, but there is something wrong with one-dimensional sex. Great sex has peaks and valleys. Ups and downs. Slow and steady, building to rough. Variety, after all, can be the spice of your sex life.

More Clitoral Action

This suggestion is a porn director’s worst nightmare. If the woman’s clitoris was being played with in every position, like the moms wanted, directors would have to rethink how these movies are shot entirely. For the most part, the only time a male porn star can give his female counterpart the clitoral attention the moms suggest is from behind in either doggy or reverse cowgirl. So while the moms shouldn’t expect to see as much clitoral stimulation as they would like in every porn movie in the future, I made them a solemn promise that I would get as much clitoral action as I could for this Mother’s Day scene made specifically for them.

Looking back on my time with the moms, I am so thankful that Brazzers gave me this opportunity to meet with them. Honest and frank discussions about real MILF’s sexuality are so rare–there has never been a porn scene made specifically for their demo inspired by detailed suggestions like these. My only hope is that our time together inspires moms to own and express their sexuality. And if any moms have suggestions for future porn scenes, remember that Brazzers will listen.

Brazzzers’ special Mother’s Day scene ‘Night Caps’ will be released on May 13th, 2018. 

Written by Julia Ann

Double-D MILF with a Triple-A level library of work.