The Porn Bachelorette: Want To Date Nikki Benz? Here’s How, No Joke.

Now accepting male candidates - if you possess these qualities.

I get asked all the time what qualities I look for in a guy. Well, listen up because I’ve decided to undertake the grueling task of answering that question.

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Secure in Himself

The last thing I need is a guy going through my phone, checking my social media and becoming jealous at the drop of a hat. A man who is secure in himself will be secure in the relationship, which is why security is a must-have quality for me when it comes to guys.  

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Passion for Cooking

I absolutely adore a man who can throw down in the kitchen. Not only because I’m a total foodie, but also because it shows attention to detail and a high level of concentration. Plus, taking the time to cook and prepare a meal for me shows me that he truly cares.

Animal Lover

If you follow me on social media then you know that I am an animal lover – especially a dog lover. My Pomeranian Tobby (pronounced Toby) is one of the best things in my life. People who love animals are compassionate and sensitive. To add to that, people who are dog lovers tend to be more outgoing and energetic according to a study on cat owners vs. dog owners. Those are traits that I admire.

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Humble

Humility is sexy to me. Nothing turns me off faster than bragging and showboating. An oversized ego makes for a difficult relationship in general. Men generally have difficulty understanding or appreciating humility since it is associated with showing weakness and vulnerability. To me however, a humble man knows his worth and doesn’t have to rattle off his accomplishments at every opportunity. Humility is the silent sexiness of knowing you’re the bomb without having to actually say it.

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Well-Traveled and Adventurous

Anyone who knows me knows that I love to travel. I am attracted to guys that share my passion for experiencing other cultures and seeing the world, one well-planned trip at a time. Traveling makes me feel alive and builds lasting memories. There’s nothing more attractive to me than seeing a cute guy collecting stamps on his passport. Conversely, a guy who refuses to try new things, or go new places is a no-go for me.

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Chivalrous

In the hook-up culture we live in, it’s easy to think chivalry is dead. Most people expect to exchange numbers, meet for a drink and then hop in the sack. But for me, being a gentleman is a must. When I’m not being a boss chick and running my empire (shoutout to the #BenzMafia), I like to be pampered and treated with respect. Opening doors, pulling out chairs, shielding me from the rain, giving me your sweater when I forgot mine and you can clearly see that I’m cold, defending my honor when needed…yep that’s the way to my heart. You don’t need to joust for my affection… not really. But if you wanted to, I wouldn’t stop you.

So if you were wondering, yes, it’s very possible to date a porn star. And it’s not all that difficult either.

Written by Nikki Benz

Life lesson provider, Pomeranian lover, and Adult Industry specialist. Don of the #BenzMafia.