When it comes to sex toys, guys have plenty of hang-ups. Too often, they feel threatened and inadequate when a lover introduces a little something extra to the bedroom, which is a massive bummer since a good old dildo, vibrator or butt plug can do a lot to intensify your sex life. I asked three women what their favorite toys are and why, so take notes, people. One of these toys might just be the thing you or your partner is looking for.
For me, it has to be the Hitachi Magic Wand because… well, when it comes to giving you orgasms, it’s magic! I like clitoral stimulation and this toy definitely gives the best vibes. Honestly, it’s like the Ferrari of vibrators and at this point I wouldn’t be able to use anything else. I mostly use it solo but have introduced it into the bedroom with past partners (most of them liked it, too, I’m happy to report). Since it’s marketed as a massager and plenty of people use it for that purpose, you don’t have to be all secretive about it, which is nice. Plus, it won’t break the bank.
For me, the recipe to the perfect orgasm consists of two very simple things: a bullet vibrator and a butt plug. I’m very sensitive so I don’t need a super powerful vibrator on my clit—right now I’m using the Rosebud—and for butt plugs I like something that gives me a fuller sensation. For now, that’s the Njoy Pure Plug. Because it’s stainless steel, the sensation is pretty thrilling, and it’s heavy which contributes to that feeling of fullness I was talking about. The orgasms I get make me see stars, which is great when I’m alone and even better when I’m with someone else.
I have a decent collection of dildos, so I guess they’re my favorite sex toys. Of the bunch, I probably use the Bandit the most. Dildos are tricky because so many of them feel synthetic, and they can start to smell (rubber ones crack, too). Once you find one that works for you, it’s definitely hard to imagine switching things up. The Bandit is silicone and it’s almost eight inches long, so it’s pretty substantial. I enjoy dildos because they give me a great deal of control over angles and depth. I get powerful orgasms from deep penetration, so this one hits the spot. I remember an ex finding out about my dildos… At first, he was hurt, betrayed even. I told him he had nothing to worry about and invited him to join me in one of my “sessions.” After that, he was definitely on board. Ironically, the best times I’ve had with dildos have been with partners, not when I’m using them solo. I find that others really seem to like watching me, and it’s a huge turn on being watched. A win-win, I’d say.
If you’ve ever been worried about women and their sex toys, these ladies should have you convinced. Far from replacing a lover, they only serve to enhance a person’s sex life and that’s always a good thing. And if you’re interested in knowing what kind of porn women are watching, we asked ladies about this too.